I'm a super Mom, but I'm no Supermom!

Friday, January 27, 2006

Winter outdoor fun!

Here are some ideas for parenting young children in cold winter climates. They all involve getting off your butt and outside! Yes, it can be a lot of work to get all bundled up and get outside, but it really does feel GREAT to get out there in the fresh air! Be sure to check the outdoor temperature though. It's not advisable to be outside when it's -13degrees celcius or colder!

1> Build a snowman. Or a snowdog. Or an entire snowfamily. Or whatever might be fun and interesting for your child! Currently on our deck, we have a snowman who is 'walking' a snowdog on a leash! Originally, we just had a snowman and snowdog beside eachother. Today we rearranged them for kicks and giggles. This pic was taken "pre-rearrangement"...


2) Put your child in a sled and pull him/her!

3) Blow bubbles - they freeze in the air and land on the ground without breaking! Then your children can have fun breaking them.

4) Make snowballs and throw them at your outside window-free walls - brick is especially good because the snow sticks to it well!

5) Save old washable markers for winter - when the snow is cold and hard, bring them outside for coloring on snow - color on snowmen, snowballs, or simply on the hard snow on the front lawn! The moisture in the snow gives new life to old markers!

Finally, especially for children who have never experienced snow, a fun first experience could simply be bringing the snow inside to the highchair. Build mini-snowmen and watch them melt quickly!

p.s. One more idea -- when your snow creations start to melt, I say you should help the sun -- why not bring out a shovel, toy hammer or balls and join in on the destruction!?

I submit to the tag, but it shall go no further...

4 Jobs You Have Had in Your Life

1. Camp Dining Room Supervisor (aka "Big Boss Lady")
2. Day Camp Coordinator
3. Preschool Teacher
4. Administrative Assistant

4 Movies You Would Watch Over and Over
1. Nell
2. Chocolat
3. When a Man Loves a Woman
4. I am Sam

4 Places You Have Lived
1. Corner Brook, Newfoundland
2. St. John's, Newfoundland
3. Guelph, Ontario
4. Nashville, Tennessee

4 TV Shows You Like to Watch (sorry - can't say I LOVE any TV shows)
1. Nanny 9-1-1
2. What Not to Wear
3. CSI
4.

4 Places You Have Been on Vacation
1. Orange Beach, Alabama
2. Florida (various places)
3. Huntsville, Ontario
4. Newfoundland (various places)

4 Websites You Visit Daily... well, a COUPLE times a week
1. various blogs on my blog roll
2. downhere.com
3. bank of america
4. td canada trust

4 Favorite Foods
1. Chocolate
2. Black Bean Hummous with pita chips
3. Banana Muffins
4. Strawberries

4 Places You Would Rather Be Right Now
1. On a massage table
2. Out on a date with my hubby
3. In an outdoor hot tub in Winthrop, Washington
4. My OWN house

Saturday, January 21, 2006

I'm tired!

This last week has proven to be less physically tiring than last week, but more mentally and emotionally draining. Jonah is having difficulty adjusting to having Miles around all the time, so he's whining a lot ("Meye-O! Meye-O!") - worrying about Miles ("Meye-O") taking his cup of soymilk/formula, his dog Ivy, sponge bob ball, various food items, and other things. He's been wanting a ton of one-on-one attention and he hasn't been sleeping well either, getting up as early as 6am (I KNOW!!!), napping poorly, and then being hysterical by 5:30pm. Man, I've just about had enough! You've heard the expression, "I'm at the end of my rope"? Well, I heard myself saying this week, "I think I ran out of rope yesterday!"

Can someone transport me to a quiet spa somewhere for a weekend?!

To Miles' credit, he is still doing well. He is sleeping well for me, eating, drinking, etc. He seems to love Jonah even more now (not sure why Jonah's whining isn't driving Miles nuts!?!?) and is trying to say "Aunt Sherri"! Yes! This is all good, because if he were struggling too, I would have run out of rope MUCH earlier in the week!

Anyway, this afternoon was a little better. Jonah and I went out and had a nice visit with some relatives. Jonah didn't say "Meye-o" once in a whiney tone and I actually remembered, "Hey, I LIKE my child!" [As a side note, he got to visit a water heater and pipes there!! And there were drums!!]

And then tonight Jonah, Miles, Tracy and I had fun hiding and laughing under blankets in the playroom. I reminded Jonah twice since about the fun we had after supper, trying to keep the GOOD memories alive! :o)

I have to take a moment to throw out a special thanks to my in-laws, who, when I was away over Christmas, changed the formal dining room into a playroom!!!! I am very grateful, as the room really has been a life saver. If it weren't for the playroom.... there'd be NO rope?! :o)

And finally, hockey is BACK! The excitement of gourmet cooking wore off sooner than I anticipated. The box is a hockey net again. The little rings we were using for pasta are now additional hockey pucks! Hockey lives! Go Leafs Go!

Tuesday, January 10, 2006

It's a new year!

Yesterday I started 'back to work'... that is, I started taking care of my nephew, Miles. He's six months younger than Jonah and I have my hands full! I'm pretty tired physically, but things are going fairly smoothly (especially if you subtract today's experience trying to get the two of them to MOPS and back)...

Things are going to slow down in lavender blog land! How do Moms do it?!

Glenn left yesterday and we had an interesting development today - the hockey 'net' (a diaper box) and hockey balls became a stove and tomatoes... Jonah is the chef du jour! He LOVES it! Who needs a Little Tykes kitchen when you have a box with marker on it!?!?! and real hand-me-down cooking utensils from Grandma and Grandpa!?!? Jonah's NHL career has LEFT the building! Only fine cuisine from here on out!

One more thing... Over Christmas Jonah became VERY interested in Nanny's water heater. The other day Glenn and I had Jonah in the car and he kept saying this over and over again:

Nanny houf hee-ah
Daddy, hee-ah, dup!
Mommy, hee-ah, dup!
Mah, hee-ah, dup!
Nanny, hee-ah, dup!
Diah, hee-ah, dup!
Nanny houf, hee-ah
Daddy, hee-ah, dup!
Mommy, hee-ah, dup!

and he went non-stop for at least 2 minutes and also inserted his version of the ASL sign for water from time to time.

Here's the translation (also, know that each of the people he mentioned are people who looked at the water heater with him):

Nanny's house heater (referring to water heater)
Daddy, heater, yup!
Mommy, heater, yup!
Mark, heater, yup!
Nanny, heater, yup!
Jedidiah, heater, yup!
Nanny's house heater, yup!
Daddy, heater, yup!
Mommy, heater, yup!

Sunday, January 01, 2006

Do YOU love?

In doing some readings this morning, I came across this statement (Fenelon):

Nothing is so sterile and cold as someone who only loves himself.

So let it get you thinking...

Do you love? Who do you love? More importantly, to whom are you actually showing love in your life right now? Today? Last week? Are you giving anything of yourself to anyone? Are you putting anyone else's needs above your own?

Make 2006 your year of unprecedented loving!